Keeping your authentic self healthy and clean is very important in TF journey. For this reason l would like to give you few tips about how to be authentic when you are in a relationship with your twin flame.
First tip is getting rid of all the personas that are attached to you since your childhood. That is why twin flame journey is relatively painful and full of suffering. It is hard to get rid of the old structure that was there for a very very long time. Getting rid of the personas and peeling the layers of your identity can take some time that is why tf journey is a long one to take. But since you are assigned for it you are good to go.
The second tip is not to cross the bridge all over when you are in a relationship with your twin flame; let’s meet in the middle, shall we; should be your motto. If you cross the bridge to meet her/him, the relationship will turn into a power game and loose its authenticity too. Keeping your personal borders and addressing your personal needs are necessary in tf relationships like all other relationships. But in this one you need to be careful which one is which. Are you the one addressing your needs or are you addressing your twin flame’s needs and thinking that they are yours.
The third tip is about not being effected by your twin flames mental and physical conditions and I believe this is the hardest part. That is why we need a separation phase in twin flame relationships. You need to be in your own self while keeping the journey of the same soul. This is quite tricky and understanding this takes a lot of time. You and your twin flame holds the same soul in two different bodies and sometimes even this same soul reflects itself to both of the bodies at the same time. For example if your twin flame is put in ER for some reason you might feel the same symptoms as if you are having the same issue. This is the mysterious part in tf relationships.
Nevertheless ENJOY your relationship as it is and try to stay calm whatever comes to your way. Be confident in responding to the life itself.
Mira and EL
The worse thing that can happen in a tf relationship is not being separated or being left alone, this is a crucial part of the process. However, the worst thing that can happen is your perception being clouded by your false thought patterns. This can lead to personality disorders and insanity.
That is why we are here, doing this job. We are here to guide you and help you through this process. Because it is hard to see this objectively while you are living in it. Keep your consciousness clean and your perception crystal clear. See this man/woman for who he/she truly is. Do not try to pursue your needs and wants to this person. This is the most important part in TF relationship so you are not caught in an illusion or obsession.
Do not make assumptions or contemplate after his/her behaviors, do not roll the conversations or text messages in your mind. Just let it be.
Your twin flame is not the person you dreamed of since childhood on the contrary your twin flame is you. They are mirroring you to you. To see this for what it is and understand the purpose of this relationship is crucial, so you can be freed from the consequences.
Could you find your twin flame within, Could you hold him/her within and continue to live your life. And the most important thing is could you be yourself around him/her? The next article will be about authenticity.
A twin Flame journey is a one that you spent mostly by yourself other than your twin flame itself considering the huge separation period usually enforced by nature.
This being alone time is crucial to your progress, so it is not affected by outside influences. If you are forcing this period to end sooner than enough, you might face more resistance by nature and you might end up being alienated from society.
Not to overdose this type of feeling indifference you might join a twin flame community or you might be friends with other people. Nevertheless, this person cannot be someone other than an ally going through the same process of twin flame journey like you do. That is why we have this blog.
Peace will eventually come, grace will eventually arrive and forgiveness and compassion will show themselves to you. For all of this, you need to work on your self-governance skills.
For self-governance skills to improve you need awareness and self-acknowledgment. You have to know how to control your impulses, emotions, and actions. This is where we usually get lost.
Finding the twin within requires a lot of time, work and dedication… So if you are on your twin flame journey for a reasonable amount of time, by working on yourself and your twin flame mirror, you might have come close to finding your twin within.
The true awakening of twin flame journey cannot happen without reaching your twin within. Your twin within will only be activated if you reach your core, your essence or your true self. This requires a lot of courage, getting rid of all the projections applied to you by your parents, community, social media and your self. This true awakening will happen at the deepest level of your soul, the part that is directly connected to the source or god… Only by then you can find your true twin flame because your twin flame will reflect that frequency of love back to you. We are all made of love… there is not any soul that stayed out of this.
When you meet the true twin that lived within you for so long… it will reveal the truth to you. The truth of who you are and what a twin flame is. Be open to any form of love during this process. Instead of speculating wait for the god to show you…. to show true love to you and then you will know what love is.
Chasing after someone who is not interested in you or rejecting someone whom you have chased for a long time is not a form of any love. This is truly the dark side of love that we have been told it is true because we have kept away from this actual true love itself. So finding the love within will deepen your relationship with yourself and your twin flame.
When you are full of love… if you can see that…you will not be leaking anymore.
Mira and El
Twin Flames are here to clear certain templates that have created a polarity between the masculine and feminine energy all throughout history for decades.
Some of these templates may include cultural differences, races, and religions which has a great impact on the history of this planet. The reason for the wars and recurring non-peace on our planet are these patterns that people follow without questioning.
Another polarity may come from age differences and abilities between man and woman in general. Women are largely overlooked about their functional abilities and also the spiritual abilities are buried underground by men.
These are the general templates that we all know that twin flames are here to saturate however there are other templates unique to twin flames couples separately such as abuse, harassment, and violence.
So if you have an abuse in the past from your parents or sibling or any other biological family related abuse, coming from your ancestral line, you and your twin flame are here to clear these templates from all of your soul lines. This is why family constellation and awareness are two important subjects related to the mission.
Twin flames are here to clear templates around marriage, betrayal, lust, and jealousy. These are the subjects you are going to be tested. To be able to pass these test, you should eliminate the negative side of these elements and any cultural pattern attached to it. Twin flames are not here to enhance these elements, on the contrary, to put an end to this traditional relationship issues between man and woman and I can see almost all of you fall into the trap of marriage and its invented procedures.
Twin flames are also here to change the energy of the environment that they emanate. By putting out their light into the waves of the universe around them, they create a divine justice and the best expression and reflection of god itself. We are here to be an example to this society and to take the leadership roles to make the necessary changes on this planet.
Being a twin flame is about the mission and it’s not about finding a mate on a dating site.